6 Tips to Become a Positive Person

It not easy to be a positive person all the time, sometimes even the most positive people have a difficult days and a negative thoughts from time to time. However when they encounter these difficult circumstances they tend to see them through a positive perspective that makes them patients, optimists and able to find out the solutions. Their positive thinking let them focus on the good and ignoring the bad, and we all agree that the positive thinking brings good results and negative thinking brings bad results. In this article, I will give you some tips that can help you to become a positive person as it did for me.

Avoid Negative Influences

In order of focusing on positivity you should avoid the negativity that will drag you down, and you have to learn to keep away from negative influences in your life.  But what are these influences and how can you avoid them?

Newspaper and News TV

Try to avoid reading newspapers and watching news TV that related war, accidents murder, and all the negative information that can make you feel negative and powerless, moreover this news can be hazardous to your health.

Your Environment

It hard to stay positive in a negative environment , no matter what is your circumstances you need to do what is better for you.

Don’t Live On The Past

I don’t have words better than these “I don’t live in either my past or my future. I’m interested only in the present. If you can concentrate always on the present, you’ll be a happy man. Life will be a party for you, a grand festival, because life is the moment we’re living now.” Paulo Coelho

Replace Negative Thoughts with Positive One

First of all you have to know that negative thoughts that attack our mind and make us depressed and pessimistic, it is not coming from outside but from within. So you should deal seriously with these negative thoughts, because  you are in control of your thoughts if you are thinking negative  you can changing it anytime by thinking about something positive in your life, every morning look at yourself in the mirror and think about some things qualities you have , then say some things positive to yourself and repeat them often , use statements such as “I am positive person” “I am confident person” “I am able to do anything ” “ I can and I will” …..

“Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; they become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habit.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”

Lao Tzu

Focus On What You Have Not What You Don't Have

Think about this quotes “If you constantly focus on what you don’t have, you will never fully appreciate what you do have.”Sharron Scott

This is true , we can’t live as others live everyone has his share in life, so stop comparing your life to others  ,focus on what you have not what you don’t have or what others have ,  look around you will find someone thinks about what you own. Try to get used to appreciate what you have, may you want what someone else has, but someone wishes to have what you have too.

Don’t Compare Yourself to Others

As I said already if you want to be a positive person you should avoid to comparing yourself to others because this comparing often leads to thinking of yourself as inferior, and as a result it will be so easy to sink into negativity. If you want to compare compare yourself to yourself (how you were in the past and how you are now)

Surround yourself with positive people

Negative people certainly have a negative effect on the people around them, so when you are surrounded by negative people, depressed and unhappy people it is so easy to sink into negative thoughts, these people will involve you in their problems, will drain your energy, confidence and self-esteem.and in the end will make you frustrated. In other side, positive people will make you feel satisfied about yoursel , optimist, more positive and will inspire you to more success and creativity .

Smile, Smile, Smile……

Whenever you feel down, try to smile and there is a good chance to increase your positive thinking for the rest of your day. Smiling plays a very important role in maintaining and improving your health, both physically and emotionally. So try to smile as much as you can and you would benefit a lot from it.

Smiling makes you feel good.

Smiling makes you happier.

Smiling makes you live longer.

Smiling makes you more attractive.

Smiling makes you look more confident and comfortable.

Smiling can reduce stress.

Smiling can lower blood pressure.

So there is no reason to tell you not to smile, ……  smile….. Smile….. Smile……. Smile…..smile…smile…….

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